Was I a good thing that happened to you?
Katy, ケテイ, Kathryn. 24.
Boston currently, forever a Texan.
Graduate fiction student at Emerson College.
Pansexual. Single.

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Anonymous asked: Don't worry about a thing Katty Kat, you'll get thru this. <3


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Aw anon you’re back. The nickname makes me feel close to you. Thank you for popping in again to encourage me.

Anonymous asked: every time you are at your lowest just remember, you won't always feel like this. those simple words have gotten me through a ton of heart ache and depression and just shit times. you won't always feel like this. i hope it helps a little.


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It does help. Something I’ve learned recently, a sort of mantra, is that when negative thoughts, self-hate, suicidal urges start to build up, I just say to myself “but you’re still pretty awesome.” It makes me laugh a little but it really does help—sometimes.

Anonymous asked: I know it's hard but try to focus on the positives. You're not ruined! You are a beautiful girl with a unique and brilliant mind. You have friends, family, and strangers that absolutely adore you.


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I feel so undeserving of such sweet words, but you really have boosted my confidence. You’re lovely for giving me some hope anon. xo

Anonymous asked: You make the lives of everyone you encounter so much better. Even just your lowly followers. lol. But really I feel like I've learned so much about myself and just perseverance by following you. You are so strong even if you can't see it just yet. I hope you'll understand how inspiring you are someday.


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Oh my goodness, that’s really surprising of you to say. I feel like I’m constantly just spewing my depression and my desire to disappear. If it’s actually helping you to follow my struggle that is so nice. I do hope that what I’ve been going through does help others realize they are not alone in their suffering. Thank you for the kind words xoxo

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COMPLIMENTS THAT AREN’T ABOUT PHYSICAL APPEARANCE

1) You’re empowering.
2) I like your voice.
3) You’re strong.
4) I think your ideas/beliefs matter.
5) I’m so happy you exist.
6) More people should be listening to what you have to say.
7) You’re a very warm hearted person.
8) It’s nice seeing such kindness.
9) You’re very down to earth.
10) You have a beautiful soul.
11) You inspire me to become a better person.
12) Our conversations bring me a lot of joy.
13) It’s good to see someone care so much.
14) You’re so understanding.
15) You matter a lot to me.
16) You’re important even if you don’t think so.
17) You’re intelligent.
18) Your passion is contagious.
19) Your confidence is refreshing.
20) You restore my faith in humanity.
21) You’re great at being creative.
22) You’re so talented at ____.
23) I don’t get tired of you the way I get tired of other people.
24) You have great taste in ___.
25) I’m happy I stayed alive long enough to meet you.
26) I wish more people were like you.
27) You’re so good at loving people.
hazeldavalos asked: Hi love, how are you? Are you feeling any better? Keep me updated and if you need anything feel free to contact me. :')


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I feel like I know a lot more coping skills now, but I also feel as hopeless as ever. I’m going to try to make it to my class on Wednesday and if I still feel this bad I guess I’ll have to take medical leave for the semester and return in the spring :\

puglove4life asked: It takes a lot of strength & courage to take care of yourself like that. I totally respect that.


Answer:

Thank you. It was very hard to go in. I’m afraid I may need to go back. I really don’t want to have to drop out of this semester though

Anonymous asked: I follow you partly because of incredibly beautiful you are. We share the same name, awakrdly enough, but I think you have an amazingly beautiful face


Answer:

Do you spell it the same too? And thank you, that’s nice of you to say. Everyone is being so sweet to me lately. I feel very liked but undeserving I guess. Anyways thank you again xoxo

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